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Saturday, 20 April 2019

HOW TO BE STRICT WHEN YOU DISCIPLINE CHILDREN

Master Jun Hong Lu’s call-in radio program

(中英版,Chinese & English
versions)

【如何严格管教孩子】

问:有一个两岁半的孩子,他的性格很霸道,不愿意给别人分享,因为两岁还没有这个意识,很霸道,喜欢推别人。像这种孩子特别霸道,在行为规范上做人这一块做得非常不好,我们做家长的可不可以严格地教训他、管教他、打他呢?

答:罚他啊,罚他跪在那里或者站在墙角上,不要打他,打孩子不好,除非你是特别爱,爱得太厉害才能打。一般的孩子,就是缘分不到,你不要去打他,有的时候缘分不到,这孩子跟你没有什么感情,你打他,他会跑掉的。
- Wenda20171022A 45:30

Wenda20171022A 45:30
(Master Jun Hong Lu's Call-In Radio Program)

HOW TO BE STRICT WHEN YOU DISCIPLINE CHILDREN

Caller: There is a two-and-a-half-year-old child who due to lack of awareness at such a tender age, is overbearing, unwilling to share , and likes to push others around.  This child is particularly domineering, and especially poor in conduct.  Can we as parents be strict with him by lecturing, disciplining, and beating him?

Master Jun Hong Lu: You can punish him!  Make him kneel down or stand in a corner.  Do not beat a child, as it is not good to do so. The only exception to punish via a beating is when you have a deep-rooted love for your child.  In general, when the affinity between you and the child is not deep, and he does not have much affection for you, he will run away if you beat him.

Translated by Oriental RadioPractice Centre (Singapore)
Proofread by 2ORSecretariat 

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